How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera

How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera (Even If You Think You're Awkward)

“We’re not photogenic.”
“We’re so awkward in front of the camera.”
“We have no idea what to do with our hands...”

Yep, I hear it all the time—and honestly? I kind of love it. Because it usually means you’re real people, not models. You’re just here to celebrate your love, not perform for the camera—and that’s exactly what I’m here to capture.

At Salt & Soul, my approach is super laid-back. I’m not into stiff poses or awkward prom-style photos. My vibe? Think of me as your third-wheel bestie—there to help you relax, have a laugh, take a breath, and actually enjoy the moment.

Here’s how I help you feel totally comfortable in front of the lens:

1. I Don’t Pose You—I Guide You

Instead of barking instructions or expecting you to know how to stand, I’ll give you gentle prompts that spark movement, laughter, or connection. Things like “hold hands and take a little walk” or “pull them in like it’s your last hug before a flight.” Simple stuff, but it works magic.

2. I Focus on Moments, Not Perfection

That little forehead kiss. The giggle when the wind catches your veil. The way you look at each other when no one else is watching. These are the moments that matter—not whether your chin is at the perfect angle (although I’ll totally have your back on that too).

3. I Create Space for You to Just Be

Couples often tell me their portrait session was the only time they got to slow down, check in, and go “WOW—we just got married.” That’s what I want for you. Your time with me is never a chore—it’s a moment to soak it all in, feel the love, and let me capture that feeling, honestly.

So if you're worried about feeling awkward—don’t be. You’re not alone, and you’re not awkward. You’re human. And I’m here to make sure you feel seen, supported, and celebrated.